Babies And Children

 

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Special Care Of Anointing Doves

Anointing doves are the children being moved by anointing and used for ministrations by the Angels and Holy Spirit.

 

1.    Parents and guardians of the children shall give the children special training. Just as Mary gave special attention and training to Jesus, and as Elizabeth gave special attention and training to John the Baptist.

2.    The training shall cover how to pray, how to dress, good manners, bible study, rites of holiness, the word of God, etc.

 

Prevent Misconducts By Children

The ministry shall watch out, discourage and punish misconducts by children. Such bad behaviours include:

1.    Uncontrolled movements.

2.    Playing too much.

3.    Talking too much.

4.    Playing or drawing on the ground during prayers and worship.

5.    Frequent urination during prayers and worship.

6.    Fighting.

7.    Distractions and disturbances during prayers and worship.

8.    Engaging in conversations during prayers and worship.

9.    Wearing of indecent dresses.

10.  Wearing of dirty dresses.

11.  Attachments and weaveons on their hairs.

12.  Gossiping.

13.  Insulting people.

14.  False allegations.

15.  Laziness.

16.  Lies and fabrications.

17.  Uncontrolled reception of gifts and edibles from people.

18.  Associating with bad groups, age mates or classmates.

                       

Habits That Foster Improper Upbringing Of Children

Children, who are not disciplined, because they are not well trained, never succeed in life, even if both parents are successful and prosperous. Good manners can take a person to very important places, where your education, money, wealth, influence or connections cannot.

The following are bad and should be prevented or cautioned:

 

1.                Dressing indecently, in the presence of children.

2.                Speaking rashly to others.

3.                Cursing, swearing, using vulgar words.

4.                Using excessive makeup.

5.                Dressing up your little children in indecent dresses. They soon lose the sense of decency. Whatever a child grows up with becomes its nature or character.

6.                Males putting on earrings.

7.                Failure to correct people who hold the cup or glassware by the brim.

8.                Failure to greet others, especially seniors and adults.

9.                Eating with open mouth.

10.           Being talkative while eating or drinking.

11.           Failure to question or investigate what your children bring home, something you did not buy for them. That is the beginning of stealing and fraud.

12.           Children talking rashly to their others.

13.           Allowing children to interrupt your conversation with others, without due respect.

14.           The children exercising power and authority over the house maids, house boys and domestic staff.

15.           Failure of your children to say a 'Thank you,' when they receive help, gifts or served something.

16.           Showing disrespect to other children who are less privileged.

17.           Children picking their teeth with their fingers or poking their noses with their hands.

18.           Failure to wash hands after visiting the toilet, bathroom or after playing outside.

19.           Children taking something from the house or fridge without first obtaining necessary permission.

20.           Failure to knock on closed doors and wait for a response, before opening the door.

21.           Children playing inside the house of others.

22.           Children walking into every room or section, in other people’s home, when they supposed to sit down quietly in the parlour or in front of the house.

23.           Children entering other people’s kitchen, even to the extent of opening the pots on fire.

24.           Children running about inside other people’s houses.

25.           Failure of children to welcome you and relieve you of burdens, items or luggage.

26.           Children requesting or asking for a bribe to carry out their home chores or run errands.

27.           Children mimicking others, especially when the act is bad or disgraceful.

28.           Failure to get up from the chair for the elderly or visitors to sit.

29.           Telling lies and fabrications.

30.           Children asking or shouting, "Who is that?" at a knock on your door instead of saying, "Please, may I know who is there."

31.           Children going to visitors to receive food or drinks.

32.           Children looking, hungrily or invitingly, to somebody who is eating or drinking.

33.           Children pointing the finger as a warning to visitors, adults and seniors.

34.           Children playing, drawing or jumping about during prayers and worship.

35.           Children meeting people without greeting them.

36.           Children being troublesome outside the house.

37.           Gossiping about others.

38.           Children asking you to go and warn others, who are their seniors.

39.           Etc.

 

Very Bad Indeed

The children and youths should not engage in the following bad things include the following:

1.    Delaying errand and services.

2.    Standing akimbo (by placing the two hands on the waist), when a senior or elder is speaking to the child.

3.    Putting their hands inside the pocket, while talking or listening to seniors and elders.

4.    Sighing or making knocking sound, when being corrected or rebuked.

5.    Dancing when they are being rebuked.

6.    Disobeying instructions.

7.    Repeating the same offence several times.

8.    Warning their seniors and elders, or asking somebody to go and warn their seniors and elders, on their behalf.

9.    Threatening their seniors and elders.

10.           Fighting their parents, seniors and elders.

11.           Beating their parents, seniors and elders.

12.           Mocking their seniors and elders.

13.           Cursing their fellow human beings.

14.           Bullying the junior ones.

15.           Making fun of the handicapped persons, mad men or less privileged individuals.

16.           Gossiping about the above misconducts or publishing the same on social networks, radio and television.

 

Against Frequent Buying

Parents and guardians should avoid the attitude of buying one thing or the other for a child, every day, every time or from time to time.

 

When children demand for something to buy, you should let them know the importance of saving money for things that are far more necessary than what they like to buy. For example, a child demanded that her mother purchase a pair of eye glasses for him, and the mother said, “Don’t you know that we have to save money for your school fees?”

 

Also, you have to guard against frequent buying of snacks by children. The money they spent everyday in buying snacks is enough for the family to cook standard foods.

 

Don Not Allow Preferences In Food

Do not allow children to dictate what type of food they have to eat. Doing so will create the situation whereby parents are busy cooking various types of foods, in order to satisfy one child after another. In such a situation, the mothers shall not have time to rest, because they shall be busy everyday cooking one type of food after another. Besides, such selection of foods creates wastefulness and unnecessary expenses, when money is hard to get.

 

Insist On Foods That Give Nourishment

Many children are always looking for sweet things to eat, without eating the things that nourish their bodies. Such children often feel very weak and complain of being weak. They tend to be sickly, suffering from one bad health condition or another.

 

The only child that should be given preferential food is the sick child. And not every sick child, but only the child that is seriously very sick. To such a child, you can give whatever type of food that he or she demands, for quick recovery.

 

How Children Learn From Their Parents

          How children behave in public and react in interpersonal relationship depends on the following:

1.    What their parents teach them, from day to day.

2.    How their parents react to issues and messages.

3.    How their parents behave in public and in the house.

4.    What the parents usually say.

5.    The stories that the parents tell everyday and how they tell such stories.

6.    How the parents condemn the anointing doves.

7.    How the parents speak about prophetic messages.

8.    How the parents treat others with or without respect and honour.

9.    The way the parents criticize others.

10.           The advice that the parents give to the children.

 

 

Beware

You are not giving the children good training when you are:

1.    Shouting at your fellow ministers.

2.    Speaking with a harsh voice to others.

3.    Gossiping about your fellow ministers.

4.    Reacting negatively towards directives.

5.    Threatening others.

6.    Showing disrespect and disregard to others.

7.    Always engaging in hot exchange of words.

8.    Rebuffing others.

9.    Rejecting simple instructions and directives.

10.           Refusing corrections, whether given by the seniors, mates or juniors.

11.           When you are not abiding in the standard laws, processes and procedures.

 

You should know that:

1.    Whatever you are doing, that the children are watching you, actively or silently, directly or indirectly.

2.    After learning the bad characters from you, they add their own bad styles and become worse than you.

3.    Eventually, they turn round to attack you with all the bad things they have learnt.

 

Present And Future Benefits

Bear this in mind – that everybody you meet in life, has something good to do in your life. The good thing may be done now or in future, either to yourself or to your children. That is why you must treat everybody as a friend. You do not know who shall be your saviour tomorrow.

 

Observations

The following are wrong:

1.    A child coming to you, asking you to go and warn an adult or senior.

2.    A child always threatening to beat or fight another child.

3.    A child who is laughing at an adult or senior, when the adult or senior is talking to the child.

4.    Children mocking an adult, senior, mate or junior.

5.    Children proving disobedient or stubborn.

6.    Children gossiping about another person.

7.    Children often going on visitation to other houses in the neighbourhood, especially now that there are so many types of evil films in circulation and home videos on display.

8.    Children staying alone in the house, without an adult or senior, to taking care of them.

 

Avoid the very bad habit of leaving the children alone in the house, because anything bad can happen, before you come back.

 

Against Predicating The Gender Of Yet-To-Be-Born Babies

 

Failed Prophecies

Recently, I noticed what seems to be contrary. Several times, pregnant women were given prophetic messages that they shall give birth to male children. Eventually, the women gave birth, one by one, not to a male child, but to a baby girl.

Why?

Does God make mistake?

 

Reasons And Explanations

No, God does not make mistake. However, the Angels may do something just to teach humanity very important lessons. The reasons why the gender of a child may not be as prophesied are:

 

1.    The yet-to-be-born baby is a secret package from God, which should not be made known until the child is born.

2.    As one ministers said, if you predict the gender of a child to be male, the Angels may change the gender to a female, just to discourage ministers from telling the gender of a child, before the child is born.

3.    The reason why so many Israelites children were massacred in Egypt were the following. Prophetic message was given to the Israelites in Egypt that a saviour shall be born to save them from bondage in Egypt. Instead of keeping their mouths shut, the Israelites were boasting about the saviour. When they had cases of quarrel with the Egyptians, the Israelite were telling the Egyptians that a saviour shall be born to deal with the Egyptians. When the news got into the ears of Pharaoh, he became jealousy, and Satan used that opportunity to cause the massacre of so many male and female babies that were born to the Israelites. The Egyptians went as far as examining the stars and destinies of new born Israelite babies. Any of them, both male and female, found to be somebody who shall be great and powerful in the future was killed, in their bid to kill Moses. But God being wiser than man, God hide Moses in the midst of the Egyptians without the Egyptians knowing it.

4.    The same thing happened at the birth of Jesus Christ. Everything was going normal, until Herod heard that a king was born. The same Satan used the opportunity to massacre so many male children in Israelite, in his bid to find and kill Jesus. And as God would have it, the baby Jesus escaped from the merciless swords of the Herod’s army.

5.    In some families or genealogy, especially where there are very wicked people, such wicked ones would kill any male child born in their clan or render such a child useless. In order to protect the male child from the merciless ones, God would put the male child in a female body.

6.    One interpretation of the message, which foretell the gender of a child to be male, and eventually it happened that a female was born, means that the female child is a great star with great destiny. It is just like seeing a woman wearing male dress in a dream or a woman being asked to break the kola nuts, in the presence of adult males. The message simply means that the woman is great star, a very important personality, who shall achieve so much just like a man.

7.    Current trends in the society show that many females are now performing far better than males. In many families, the backbone, the burden-bearer, the bread winner, are the women without people knowing it. In some cases, people would come into a compound and be praising the head man, for the development of the family and compound, without knowing that the real person making the development is a female.

8.    The karmic side of the whole thing is that males who maltreat women for bearing female child, shall eventually reincarnate as women to suffer the same maltreatment.

 

Very Poor Support From The Parents

By Archangel Raphael

 

The real problem is that, in most cases, the parents who should give solid support to what is being done, they do not come close to DivineBase Ministry. This is true, especially of the fathers. That is why most of the things that should be done for the anointing doves and divine children are not being done. Many of the anointing doves have overgrown their garments and dresses. They are wearing undersize garments and dresses, and nothing is being done to sow new garments and dresses for them. Parents do not put such things into their budgets.

 

Attendance To Prayers And Worship

By

Archangel Rapa

Archangel Raphe

And Archangel Crusovar

 

When children stop attending prayers and worship, they start falling in spirit, even without your knowing it.

 

The children should know that their blessings, favours, success and prosperity are in the hands of the Lord. They get these blessings by doing the will of God and by doing God’s work. Your parents or others cannot make you what you shall become in life, because it is not in their hands to do so. They can only assist or facilitate. It is God Almighty that makes a person great and successful in life.

 

The children should be actively involved in the work of God, because the youths and adults have abandoned the work of God and have turned their backs on God.

The children shall perform far better than the youths and adults.

 

Equal Treatment Of Children

By

Archangel Rapa

Archangel Raphe

And Archangel Crusovar

 

The Convention

Usually, when a prophecy is given that a particular child will become very rich and wealthy, the parents and members of the extended family system treat the child as special and superior to other children. Special love and care is bestowed upon a child with bright future, even to the extent of neglecting and maltreating other children.

 

The Reality

The fact that a child is prophesied to become very rich and wealthy does not mean that other children are not important, just as all fingers are not equal, but all fingers are important. A parent may be told that one of his children shall be very rich and wealthy, but the same parent has not being told that the other child will become president or governor.

 

Therefore

In the family everyday relationship, do the following:

1.    Ensure that every child gets his due share and attention.

2.    Avoid neglecting some children because of others.

3.    Avoid showing disrespect to one or more children, because the child or children may grow up to become very important personalities in other areas of human endeavour.

4.     Do not postpone what is due to a child until a later time.

5.    Do not feel that a particular child is not yet qualified to get the good things provided for other children.

6.    Avoid frequent rebukes and quarrels.

7.    Avoid cursing the children, despite their misconducts.

8.    Pray for the wellbeing of the children.

9.    As well pray for their spiritual growth and radiance.

10.                       Avoid engaging the children in too much domestic services and errands, because doing so makes the spirits of the children to become disorganized and restless, hanging far away from themselves. As a result, the children cannot attain the heights of greatness which God destined for them.

11.                       Allow them to have quiet time and meditation, rest and relaxation.

12.                       Encourage them to attend prayers and worship. When you keep your children away from the presence of God, you are already allowing Satan to take over in their lives. At first, you will not notice that Satan has taken over, until later in their lifetimes.

13.                       All rules and regulations may not apply equally to every child, because their spiritual levels are different and their destinies are not the same.

 

Observations

The Hosts of Angels and Saints of heaven do not want, and do not like, unfair treatment of children. And often, parents who show preferential treatments do think that the other children do not know what is happening. This is not true, because even the child who is always silent and quiet will one day analyze the whole situation and tell you parents where you were wrong. The fact that a child does not complain or speak does not mean that unequal treatment is good or acceptable.

 

Eventually, the child who grows up to be poor and resident in the village, renders more beneficial services than the brother, who is rich and wealthy living in the city. It is the person in the village that maintains the family extended system and relationships with the clans and kindreds, friends and well-wishers. He stays in the village to protect family lands, attends various meetings and occasions, in the name of the entire family, while the rich and abroad members of the family live in the cites, taking care of their respective immediate families only.

 

Disadvantages Of Unequal Treatment Of Children

1.    Some children do not regard their fathers and mothers as parents.

2.    Some children would prefer their mother and side with her in every deliberation and consideration, as if the father does not exist.

3.    Some children do regret the unfair treatment, even so without complaining, without saying a word.

4.    That is why some children look for stepparents outside the family, even while the parents are still alive.

5.    Some of them become attached to outside parents, whom they regard as sugar daddies and sugar mummies.

6.    And before you know it, a child has concluded that his parents are not the parents, and has made somebody else a trusted father or mother.

7.    Some children live a life full of sorrows and regrets, without the parents knowing it.

8.    Such children develop cold heart towards their family, and once they get the opportunity, they go overseas without caring for other family members.

9.    Some of the rich and wealthy people in the societies today, would readily tell you how they were neglected and abandoned when they were still very young, and the worst is that they are not ready to forgive and forget.

10.                       Divisions, quarrels and contentions begin to develop in the family that was once peaceful and united.

11.                       When children are treated equally, they grow up to treat others with justice and fairness. Otherwise, they begin to feel that life is a matter of survival of the fittest – the winner takes all affair.

 

Ancestors

Some children speak without respect, without fear, because they were the ancestors who have reincarnated again. They feel that you, their parents, should not threaten, punish or rebuke them, because they were fathers and mothers before you.

That is why some of the children are very stubborn. One boy was bold to say to his mother, “Do you know that I was your senior brother? Is it because I am now your son that you think that you can treat me anyhow you like? Nonsense!”

 

The Example Of Jesus

All the same, children should be respectful and obedient, despite the fact that they have been ancestors or shall become very important personalities in the future. Just as the child Jesus was obedient to his parents, Joseph and Mary.

 

Dos And Don’ts For The Children

1.    Children should avoid being talkative.

2.    Avoid gossiping.

3.    Avoid murmuring.

4.    Avoid replying words, angrily.

5.    They should avoid sighing.

6.    They should not walk away when somebody is talking to them or rebuking them.

7.    Children should avoid being disobedient and stubborn, because disobedience and stubbornness cause hindrances and setbacks in spirit and in life. The fact that a child shall become very great in future does not mean that such a child should not be receiving corrections and advice. A person who receives corrections and advice grows belter, both spiritually and physically.

8.    And he grows up to become very wise and successful, able to avoid possible self-inflicted problems.

 

Inspection And Discipline Of The Children

From time to time, especially after every three months, and not later than six months, inspect, score and discipline the children on the following:

1.    Disobedience.

2.    Stubbornness.

3.    Noise making.

4.    Playing too much.

5.    Laziness.

6.    Complaining, murmurings and nagging.

7.    Truancy.

8.    Abuse and curses.

9.    Fight.

10.  Calling names.

11.  Dirtiness.

12.  Etc.

 

This exercise will make the children to stop and avoid the bad behaviours, and to be watchful against the spirits of deception and misconducts. Those found to have misbehaved shall be given the strokes of the cane, according to the numbers of their misconducts. The flogging may be one or more, but not more than six strokes, and it shall not be too severe on the children.

Before flogging the children, pour the blood of Jesus on their hands and on the cane. Do not flog them inside the temple, because the temple is for the good and salvation of humanity, and for prayers and worship, and because God is present in His throne, the altar. The flogging shall be outside the temple.

 

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